Leadership in a Fearful World

Copyright 2005 So-lu'shunz Management Servicesby all means, dont judge. Hear them out;
We are living in a fearful world. It is a worldacknowledge them and then be prepared to help
haunted by the menace of terrorism, threatenedthem move forward.
by insidious warfare. It is a world plagued by5. Provide an opportunity to move forward to
tsunamis, monster hurricanes, earthquakes,normal operation. Though true normalcy may not
tornadoes, severe drought, famine and ragingbe possible for some time, realize what will be
wildfires. But these often often take a back seatnecessary to return to a degree of normal
to fear right in our own neighborhood streets.functioning and facilitate it.
What was once a place of commerce,6. Recognize and deal with the acute reaction. Be
transportation and community has become a warprepared to employ professionals to assess those
zone right outside our front doors. Children arewhose reactions seem to be severe, situations in
often not safe in their classrooms, and sadly notwhich the individuals may be a potential danger to
even in their own homes.themselves or to others.
Haunted by insecurity and upheaval, shadowed by7. Provide resources 24/7. From toiletries for
dread, the world hungers for great leadership, forthose displaced by a tornado to a forum for
guidance and direction from those with cool headssharing memories about a deceased comrade, the
and clear visions. If you are in a position ofgreat leader will see through the eyes of need
leadership, and very few of us are not, dont waitand provide whatever will help the victimized begin
for a great leader to emerge. Great leaders areto feel empowered once more.
not born they become. A great leader is one8. Dont ever promise what you cant deliver. But
whose heart is transformed, often during timesdont hesitate to promise what you know you can.
of great crisis. You can be the great leader toIn times of crisis, people will hang onto whatever
arise in your family, community or businessis offered. As a leader, you are bound to make
setting.your offers concrete and be prepared to stand
Webster defines crisis as disordered function, abehind them, at all costs.
radical change of status, an unstable or crucial9. Communicate, communicate, communicate.
time or state of affairs in which a decisive changeKeep all lines of communication open and flowing.
is impending; especially one with the distinctRepeat each communiqu over and over. Ears in
possibility of a highly undesirable outcome.crisis may not hear whats being said until the
With that definition in mind, handling crisis is nofourth or fifth telling. And remember that it goes
longer an option for any leader. Leaders must betwo ways. Listening is equally as important as
prepared at all times to handle crisis and itsimparting information. Be willing to hear the same
outcomes at home, among friends and in thestory until it no longer needs to be told.
workplace. If thats a daunting possibility, beComfort comes in all shapes and sizes. Great
encouraged. You are far better prepared to beleaders often look a lot like grandmothers with
the instrument of peace in a critical situation thatcomfy laps or paramedics who dispense teddy
you realize. Keep these steps in mind.bears with ambulance rides, or neighbors who
1. Deal with yourself first. Youre no good tomake their homes available at a moments notice.
anyone if youre out of control. Deal with yourGreat leaders are those who establish and insure
own emotions, your immediate needs. As theorder. They guide and teach and protect. They
airlines have been telling us for years, put theprovide tools; they counsel, arbitrate and shield.
oxygen mask on yourself first, and then you canThey comfort and nurture and encourage. And
be available to those in need.when the time is right they will even prod.
2. Tell the truth about the situation. Use yourWhatever the title they bear, if they are
good judgment to share what information isaccomplishing these things, they have
pertinent. Its not necessary to share all the gorytransformed hearts and they have become
details simply because they exist. The need toleaders. The need is great and they are very
share sensational data will separate the leaderprecious to us in these times. Be among them.
from the limelight seeker.Remember its not what you do; its what you
3. Alleviate stress, as much as possible. Provide abecome!
controlled atmosphere in which people can talkNote: For more information or to arrange for
through their fears, where they can share whatformal training in crisis response procedures,
they have experienced and how they are feelingcontact the International Critical Incident Stress
about it.Foundation (ICISF), The American Association of
4. Authenticate the experience. Dont try to talkChristian Counselors (AACC), the American Red
people out of their emotions; dont comment andCross or your local disaster response coordinator.