Emotional Intelligence, Reading Faces, and Meditation

Copyright (c) 2007 SharpBrainsin cultures everywhere, from modern to stone
Concealed emotions, also called facialage, agreed on the emotion behind the
"microexpressions", are the fleeting expressionsexpression. He then turned to studying the
that, believe it or not, you make when consciouslyproduction of these expressions and the 43 facial
or unconsciously trying to hide your truemuscles that can create 10,000 expressions,
emotions. In conscious microexpressions you maywhich form the basis of his training.
be trying to lie, while with unconsciousHe found seven universal emotions with unique
expressions, you may not even be aware offacial expression. The emotions are: anger, fear,
what they are truly feeling.sadness, disgust, happiness, surprise, and
Paul Ekman, Ph.D. has made a study of thesecontempt. At least five of these are shared with
microexpressions. According to Ekman, "Thesenon-human primates as well. Interestingly, the
expressions tend to be very extreme and verysmile is the easiest expression to recognize, and
fast. Eighty to 90 percent of people we testedthe easiest to identify from afar. These emotions
don't see them."have a specific trigger, come quickly without
Ekman was a Professor of Psychology in thethought, and interact with your physiology -
Department of Psychiatry at the University ofmeaning merely making the fear expression will
California at San Francisco for 32 years. His originalcreate a fear response in your body as well. With
focus was on "nonverbal" behavior, and by thefear, neurons will signal your body to prepare to
mid-60s, he concentrated on the expression andflee by sending blood to the large voluntary
physiology of emotion. He has developed amuscles in your legs. In anger, on the other hand,
secondary interest in interpersonal deception asyour brain signals your body to fight by sending
well. Perhaps his most famous publication is theblood to your hands. Try practicing on yourself:
The Facial Action Coding System (FACS) which iscan you feel a change in your emotional state by
used by law enforcement and intelligence agenciesmaking changes in your facial expression?
everywhere, as well as parents and therapistsEmotions have distinct triggers and learning those
who want to be able to understand people aroundtriggers is an important step in understanding your
them better.own emotions and why you respond the way
"With my children, spouse, friends and workyou do. To date, the best way to learn to
associates, if I don't understand how they'rerecognize the the impulse that was triggered
feeling  either about me or about (things) thatbefore the awareness of the emotion is
may have nothing to do with me when wecontemplative practice (meditation). Also, an
interact  then I'm not going to have a veryimportant point to clarify, emotions are not
useful exchange with them," Ekman said.moods, which are longer affective experiences
He has conducted extensive research onhave an unclear trigger (you may not be sure
identifying emotions through facial expressions. Aswhat sparked the mood you're in) and tend to
part of that research, and as part of the powerfilter your view of the environment.
of discipline and training, he learned how toBased on primary and secondary research, he
consciously manipulate 42 facial muscles, includingfound that there are seven emotions expressed
many that in most of us are beyond our control,in the face in universally consistent ways:
and even awareness.Sadness, Anger, Surprise, Fear, Enjoyment,
In the 60s and 70s when Ekman began lookingDisgust, Contempt.
into the universality of facial expressions, all theEven more interesting: according to his research,
major contemporary social scientists, likefeelings and facial expressions influence each
Margaret Mead, believed that expressions wereother. This is, not only a sad person will naturally
culturally learned, not innate. He proceededlook sad, but a person who intentionally smiles will
traveled all over the world with pictures of peoplefeel more content than a person who doesn't.
making distinct facial expressions and found peopleNow, would you please smile ...