| If you're pondering the question of how to avoid | | | | how to avoid divorce -- |
| divorce, you are probably at the end of your | | | | 1. Call off the lawyers. Go back to the |
| rope. One of you has probably moved out, you're | | | | fundamentals -- the two of you sitting down to |
| not on talking terms, you can't bear to be in the | | | | talk through whatever issues you have on the |
| same room together, and the lawyers have | | | | table. |
| drafted the divorce papers. | | | | 2. Reflect on the life you've shared and the |
| But you still want to give it a shot. You still love | | | | commitment you've made to each other. You've |
| your spouse, you guys were good together in the | | | | probably built up a lot of negative baggage |
| past, you believe there's so much to your | | | | through all the fighting and divorce talk. It's time |
| marriage that's worth saving. And then there's the | | | | to relook at the good stuff. |
| children to consider. How could you put them | | | | 3. Get professional help. Not biased friends and |
| through life without their father or mother. | | | | family. An objective, professional therapist. Many if |
| Despite the fact that it's almost "normal" for half | | | | not most marriages that get saved do so with |
| the kids out there to come from divorced | | | | the help of such experts. If the price of therapy |
| families, that doesn't mean it's good for them. | | | | is too rich for you, consider getting the online |
| So what can you do, how to avoid divorce. For | | | | e-courses and ebooks put out by the very same |
| couples on the verge, the experts will | | | | professionals but at a reasonable price. |
| recommend the following measures/solutions on | | | | |